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How to get others to listen to you

Tuesday, May 20th, 2025

It’s not too rare in 4th and 5th grade to come upon some students that are having a bad time and really wish other people knew about it. This usually involves the students talking, discussing, arguing, shouting, yelling, or name-calling in an effort to express their feelings.

What we adults know is that that method usually creates more problems than it solves. But we also know that even adults are tempted to speak harshly or lash out when we feel we have been wronged.

Love and Logic has a great, simple suggestion for boosting the chance that other people will listen to you. Phrase your concern like this:

“I’d like to share what I’ve been hearing and get your thoughts.”

This method gets the concern discussed without putting anyone on the hot seat. No one feels defensive, so the topic will get discussed and probably resolved.

This would probably solve a lot of problems for people that go to elementary school, or for anyone that has ever attended one.

The rest of the article is worth a read.

Originally posted 2018-09-06 17:22:58. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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The time is right

Tuesday, May 13th, 2025

Originally posted 2018-02-19 13:55:39. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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A healthy way to solve problems

Tuesday, May 6th, 2025

It might be funny to watch a dysfunctional family on TV, but it’s not fun being a part of one, says Love and Logic in a recent article. Researchers have studied what makes families happy and healthy, and one important discovery has been who family members talk to when the have problems:

In healthy families, Mom talks to Dad when she is upset with Dad.
In unhealthy families, Mom talks to the kids when she is upset with Dad.
In healthy families, Dad talks to Mom when he’s upset with Mom.
In unhealthy families, Dad talks to his friends when he is upset with Mom.
In healthy families, Junior talks to Dad when he wants something from Dad.
In unhealthy families, Junior talks to Mom when he wants something from Dad.
In healthy families, Junior talks to his teacher when he doesn’t understand an assignment.
In unhealthy families, Mom and Dad talk to Junior’s teacher when Junior doesn’t understand an assignment.

The pattern is probably clear by now. Healthy communication involves going directly to the party involved in the problem, rather than involving a third party. The shortest distance between two points is a straight line, and quickest way to a solution means going to the person involved. Read the whole article here.

Originally posted 2017-04-13 13:35:36. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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